As I thought about this posting I could not decide what to title it -- "Gives Peas a Chance" or "Eat It or Wear It". Both are completely relevant and catchy. Once you give this one a read you will have to let me know your thoughts.
Over the weekend I spent time with my family celebrating my mom's 70th birthday. During our stay we enjoyed great food and great wine. The weekend was a perfect way to celebrate my mother and this amazing rite of passage.
I noticed something very interesting about my nieces and nephews. As a family of foodies they are exposed to all types of food, but what amazes me is how their tastes vary. Sam, my 13 year old nephew, loves stinky cheese, but shuns most other "exotic" foods. Maggie, my 8 year old niece, loves tackling the briniest of oysters, but when I tried to tempt her with my Creamed English Peas With Pancetta and then Red Abalone from Pacific's Edge she said "Ummm... I will pass Uncle Monkey" with that I smell poo look on her face. Lucy, the spunky and adorable 4 year old, would not eat a burger from In-N-Out because it wasn't from McDonald's.
The psychology behind what kids will and will not eat amazes me, but after thinking more about it I realized that it must be a combination of nature vs. nurture. Although I have no proof behind the assertion my thought is that we are born with trained taste buds and stomachs that can handle certain types of foods. Although I like hot sauces, they never agree with me so I rarely eat them without some Tums. My father, who loves great food trained me early on that oysters were amazing... this is the nurture part of the puzzle. In fact, he would regularly tell us, when we refused to try something, "eat it or wear it". The thought of wearing slimy oysters was never appealing so I immediately dug in when I heard that comment.
What I am trying to say here is that although we cannot necessarily control the nature piece of the puzzle, parents, adults, uncles, aunts all play a role in expanding a child's epicurean horizons. So give them raw oysters and sushi. Turn them on to D'Affinois and Gorganzola Dolce. Encourage them to devour sweetbreads and pate. The list of fascinatingly delicious foods is a long one, but if we ask our kids to "Gives Peas a Chance" or scare them with "Eat It or Wear It" collectively we are helping to create a society of children who realize there is much more than McDonald's and Potato Chips when it comes to food choices.

